Thursday, August 19, 2010

The "Gender Discrimination "

Hello Friends,



Today morning when I was sitting idle after bunking a few classes, a thought randomly crossed my mind. People, now-a-days, shout a lot about “Gender Discrimination”, “Female Empowerment”, “Women Reservation” and what not in this genre. There are a lot of discussions held on this topic, a lot many organizations actively work for the sake of “Women Empowerment”, and they seek to get them reservations in every possible scenario.


But, what occurred to me is, which do we more readily accept, something which occurs naturally or something which is thrust upon us, something that is as we are/that is common or something that is different/alien????


Now, a fact that you must already know is that women have been neck to neck with men in every aspect. At some places they even have been a shade better. There are a numerous examples and quoting a few names might suffice I guess, Kiran Bedi, Kalpana Chawla and many more...


Now here what I want to say is that why do people make such an issue about women empowerment. In my opinion, this harms more than it helps. By giving them reservation, by constantly bickering about women rights they just highlight that they are different, they are weak, they need extra care, etc. When you hear about gender discrimination you think, “Yaar, its true. Girls & women do need help...”. I say, why do they need help??? Are they any different?? They too have as much potential of achieving anything, of doing anything as that of a boy or a man. All these societies, these activities do the contrary of what they aim at.


Now you might ask what in my opinion should people do to improve the current scenario where women are oppressed and girl child is regretted? My answer to that question would be: educate people. Now I say educate people not literate them but educate them. Now literate people are the people having the ability to read and write, and people knowing how to read and write does not much help the situation. But when you educate people, you give them knowledge, you refine their taste, you improve their thinking standard and that my friends is the ticket to end this problem.


Moreover, educating people not only improves the situation with just this problem but many more... It will help develop the nation a great deal.


I say, stop all these activities which are self-destructive in nature, which harm the cause they seek to promote. Educate people and leave the women to struggle for and achieve the position they deserve. This process may take a bit more time but then the position the women will achieve will be worthwhile.


Now friends the idea I have presented here is my personal opinion on this matter and I wish to cause no disrespect to the perspective of others especially those who might be more knowledgeable than me. You may or may not like what I think; some might even find the idea to be foolish, immature or unrealistic. But still, I request you to give a review, what you feel about my point of view.


                                                              Thank You for enduring my boring writing...


                                                                                                   Devraj Goswami

4 comments:

  1. Nice Work Dude.......
    U're perfectly yo d point with d notion that u can't xpct sumbody 2 mix in2 d mainstream after providing them a side passageway...... yet the perception of the work done by NGOs n such organizations is made by we educated individuals.. We need 2 hv an accepting and liberal outlook towards women rights but a staunch no, to women "reservations"!!!!!!

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  2. gud wrk bro...
    agreed with ur each n every txt...but u need to add ample scoop of improvment to make ur blogs mre justified...
    all da best

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  3. Nice post Devraj Goswami. All I want to say is the following :

    You say that it "harms more than it helps", does it really? Would you have said the same thing if you were a female and would have been born at a time when discrimination was at its peak?
    Is it not good that people realized that women were being discriminated against and strove to put an end to it?

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  4. Splendid post. It represents a point of view that is refreshingly unconventional and rather accurate. Whereas I'd contest the complete elimination of upliftment practices (they're helpful to a degree in generating awareness and protecting the illiterate - I say so because, the notion you offer can't be understood by the majority) but I do agree that things like reservation simply worsens things in the long run.

    At the end of the day, it boils down to stereotyping. Focusing on women (or men for that matter), whether positively or negatively, simply serves to bring home the fact that there are differences that need attention; it's counterproductive to the ideal goal of the realization that we're all individuals, first and last; each one of us unique, but human just the same. Gender, its roles and such are societal constructs, and political power control tools when it comes down to it.

    Also, I think you'd quite enjoy Judith Butler's views. She's an imminent philosopher with strong views against the feminist movement in its traditional form.

    Keep writing! :)

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